Geez NY.There surely must be something formidable in this end-of-may discovery.I hint or two about your 'sacrifice' in your next posting will bring a great deal of light to some of us.Bless you!!
And an iota of a point further along that curve lies hate. So I say, sacrifice with eyes wide shut.
Sacrifice if only it is worth it
I sacrificed. It hurt. I will sacrifice no more... Ok, just a little bit.:-)
Reached by compromise?
Sacrifice and friendship. If you cannot give these twins, you have no business being in a heart-based relationship. Elect the friends-with-benefits model - you are more suited for that.
Ok, Posekyere, it will likely come.
You're so right, Selali. Sacrificing for when your love is unrequited, spurned or jilted quickly breeds hate. Sooooo right.
Ok, Naa, we will sacrifice only if it is worth it. Many a time, though, it is impossible to know at the beginning if sacrificing would be worth it.
Just keep the head not far behind the heart which you follow, Savvy
Pardon Raine,What did you mean?
The friends-with-benefits model, Kiz man, damages the so-called moral fabric/fibre, no?
Right on, Nana. You are correct. Without sacrifice there is no love. Love has to be selfless. By that I don't mean one should give up on oneself, but be able to put another person before yourself. I also agree friends-with-benefits damages the moral fibre. A sick idea if you ask me.
@ Adaeze, the true love or which one? And which of them do we know is true and to stay for gud?If the mind has a master key, it will be so easy to sacrifice, if it's has a master key you will know ur partners mind b4 u even tie de knot.
Thanks, Ada. We think alike...on this.
@ Naa - The true love. We never know if something stays for good, but hopefully it will, right= I think ur heart will tell u when the person is right to sacrifice for. If the person is not worth sacrificing for, why waste ur time in the relationship? If one waits with sacrifice forever out of fear, even with the right person, it will lead to loss. U are very right, u will indeed know ur partners mind before tying the knot if the person is right. But sacrifice is always necessary to some extent. The key is to know when it is correct to sacrifice, and when to stand your ground. Bottom line is if the love is strong enough it will be worth it. @ Nana - What's up with the dots and 'on this'? Lol.
Oh Ada, I wanted to say we agree (on everything) then I decided to be more specific and say we agree on this. Lol
lol I was afraid you were hinting that you don't usually agree with me! Glad I was wrong :-)
Why is the 'friends with benefits' situation bad for the moral fabric? Actually, whose moral fabric? If two consenting adults take that decision why should it be a problem?
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