Interesting one Nana Yaw, personally, I'm definitely for the time to heal option. Staying wide open may make the battered heart susceptible to additional heartaches! But then again, "time to heal" could actually become a permanent state of affair with a serious aversion towards future heart-break...
And there, Abena, is the conflict that made me write this rhyme.
Hibernate, but don't give out. Tried and tested.
"Time to heal" heals slowly datz where de pain hurts de more. De broken heart shld shout out de pain 4m de heart n stay wide open to love all over again n not to give up even though some gives up n never love again.
What does "don't give out" mean, Savvy?
Arguing both sides are we, Naa?
Be your own best friend.
You bet, Kiz!
@ Kissi, I can be ma own best friend wen a best friend betrays me, but to be ma own best friend wen am broken hearted(hmmm am really thinking)...can yuh anyway?
interesting!when one goes, or when you let one go, just allow the next person to help do the healing time! lol!or whatever you choose, just don't kill yourself over milk that has been spilled!the thought of the two conflicting situations alone should be a healing pill.
Is it really that easy, Novisi? Have you ever been hurt that way?
It means "stop"! Don't stop loving. Sleep for a bit.;-)
lol @ Savvy, gud to sleep small. Novisi dat means yuh r in favour of de double game deal(keeping two birds at de same tym, so if one goes u still ave one bird in stock, aight?)
I agree with you, Savvy
I think it is necessary to hibernate for a while in order to be mentally fit for whoever next life has in store for you..but don't give out like savvy said.
Hibernation, then, is the name of the game, Adaeze!
not easy Nana.but something else must make a man/woman tick again or never again! and here the conflict of the two scenarios comes handy i guess!
Novisi, what must make a person tick again?
off beat! (quite personal)i'm sitting herewith tears welling up in my eyes!and i can't hold them back!the emotion is strongit's consuming me!is she calling it quits?is it all about guilt?yet something must make me tick againsomething, Nana, something!(there's some consolation in these lines of yours that have me reading and i'd keep reading till i find that healing!)
Wow! That's very special, Novisi. I've been through those straits before. Oh how it nearly killed me!
trust and love again when you are ready, young sir. :) your writing rocks btw chale!
Thanks, so much, Dalyni, both for the advice and the compliment.
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